A girl in the world

Sunday, February 18, 2007

Sunday morning in New York

This morning L and I decided to go to Redeemer Presbyterian Church in the city. www.redeemer.com I really enjoyed the service. I was surprised at how diverse the attendees were - all ages, all ethnicities. One woman shared her testimony about a missions trip she took to Peru and the impact the children had in her life - and L and I were both in tears. It was very moving. The sermon was great. L had told me that Dr. Timothy Keller is one of her favorite preachers and I can see why. He's very good. http://www.redeemer2.com/resources/index.cfm?fuseaction=media

Tomorrow I'm off to Jacksonville, FL. Thank God the weather's going to be nice. This last weekend in NY it was below freezing. This week it'll be in the 70's in Jacksonville. Yeeehaaa! :)

Saturday, February 17, 2007

Broadway!

Saturday L and I had plans to see some Broadway shows. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Broadway_%28theatre%29
Although I’ve lived on the East Coast for more than 5 years now, this was my first time going to Broadway and spending any amount of time in NY for anything other than a meeting or quick day trip. 5+ years ago I did spend about 3 weeks in NY training for my job, but that was in Nyack, which is in the suburbs. It’s not at all the same as NYC.

After L and I had a big breakfast from a local diner, we headed into the city (this time we drove). We picked up L’s college friend Laurie and had lunch at a small Italian deli. Then we went to another local gem, the Cupcake Café. Their small cupcakes were fresh and delicious. L’s friend Laurie was a lot of fun and full of energy. She knew NYC well and it was fun to hear about the little shops and cultural activities.

We went and saw a Broadway show called, “The Little Dog that Laughed”. http://www.broadway.com/gen/show.aspx?SI=518454 Honestly, even after seeing the play I’m not quite sure what the point of the title is, but it’s supposed to be a comedy. Sadly, I don’t think it was all that funny. I actually thought the story line is sad. It’s supposed to be about Hollywood. A semi-successful actor is on the verge of becoming more successful and has a cunning agent. She buys a movie deal for him, although she’s not very ethical. He’s lonely as he’s out on the road and although he’s not overtly gay becomes involved in a gay relationship with a man who is really like a male prostitute. Although this male prostitute has a girlfriend, he sees men for a living. The two end up having more than a business relationship and are willing to make sacrifices in their lives in order to be together. They end up jeopardizing their careers and their relationships with other people. As the actor is about to give up this new film role and chance at mega stardom he and his lover find out that the lover (prostitute)’s girlfriend became pregnant when they were still together. She doesn’t know what to do but decides to have an abortion. The pregnancy is revealed when the lover asks the actor for a loan to pay for the abortion. The actor has the money and is willing to lend it, but doesn’t know what to do about the situation and involves his agent. His agent cleverly decides to spin the story in the actor’s favor by suggesting that he marry the pregnant girl (and stay in the closest because he would be better accepted as an actor in Hollywood if he wasn’t gay) and keep his lover on the side. The lover is hurt that the actor won’t just stay with him and he leaves while the actor and girlfriend get married and live happily ever after (or so it seems to the outside world). The whole story is depressing really. Every part of it. From the initial relationships (gay prostitute and girlfriend) to the so-called heart felt relationship (doomed gay lover relationship).

In the evening we saw another show, after standing in a long line to get 1/2 priced tickets. If you don't mind taking your chances on which show to see, you can get 1/2 priced tickets the day of the show if there are tickets that haven't been sold. L and I decided to see "Prelude to a Kiss". I couldn't remember anything about the plotline at the time, but I did remember that Meg Ryan had been in the movie, which came out in the 1990's. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0105165/ What's interesting about Broadway is that you're bound to see some TV start on it. Both in "The Little Dog that Laughed" and in "Prelude to a Kiss" I recognized some of the actors. It was actually really interesting. Broadway is apparently the place to be!

Friday, February 16, 2007

The City that Never Sleeps

L and I had an eventful day. Since this was my first time really exploring NYC, I felt it was high time for me to see the Statue of Liberty and Ellis Island. You can’t do the work I do, live on the East Coast and not go to Ellis Island. Unfortunately we were both so tired the night before that we got a late start. It was freezing near the water and since I’d run out the door the morning before, I came ill prepared, without a hat or gloves. I ended up buying cheap NYC hat and gloves right by the harbor. Thankfully they did the job and kept me warm – much warmer than I had been early that morning. While in line we met a guy from Britain, who had been traveling the world for 10 months. He had been to all kinds of countries, including Australia, Russia and South Africa. Now he was on his way back to Britain and the U.S. was one of his last stops. I really envy people who can do that – take so much time out of their lives and travel all over the world. Do they ever get tired of traveling? I wonder if they miss sleeping in their own beds? I’ve done a lot of traveling, but I’m usually in one place for a while. I can’t imagine being in a new place week after week. But it seems like it would be such a rich experience – seeing the world, experiencing different cultures and food – meeting people from all over. The trip of a lifetime. Maybe I’ll do that some day, if, at that point in life I still have the desire and energy (or maybe I’ll just make my way around the world through my work….)

L and I took a Circle Line ship over to Liberty Island and to the Statue of Liberty. We were told that the Statue had been given to the U.S. from France. The Statue has so much significance. It’s a symbol for freedom and independence. It’s a beacon of light and hope for those who are looking for a bright future or peace or religious freedom. Being there inspired me – when L and I weren’t running around trying to stay warm.

The view from Liberty Island was fabulous. You could see the harbor and the New York City skyline. The island was little more than the Statue and a souvenir shop. On the ship ride back a French guy asked me to take a picture of him with the New York City skyline in the background. He was sincere, apologetic and looked kind. The whole experience made me smile. It’s nice to watch those from other countries enjoy our tourist attractions. How many times have I been in their shoes in other countries?

Ellis Island was amazing. The building that used to house and register the immigrants coming to America had been converted into a museum. I could have spent half a day or more at Ellis Island. Unfortunately we already had tickets for the evening, so we could only stay for about an hour. One immigration officer who used to work on Ellis Island had taken some amazing pictures of people and his photos were exhibited. He took pictures of immigrants from every imaginable country. Being on Ellis Island was inspiring and once again I was reminded of why I love the work I do. I definitely need to go back to Ellis Island and explore it some more.

That evening L and I went to the Met (the Metropolitan Opera). http://www.metoperafamily.org/metopera/ We saw a wonderful opera called “La Traviata”, written by Giuseppe Verdi. It’s a story about a courtesan and a man who fall in love in Paris. She’s had a hard life, but finally decides to let him love her. After 3 months of living together in the countryside his father comes to see her and asks her to give him up because their relationship is jeopardizing his family’s reputation. His daughter’s engagement is on the brink and he is afraid that she won’t be able to get married if his son continues to see this courtesan. She doesn’t want to give him up, but finally relents to the father’s pleading. She decides not to tell him about her sacrifice and just breaks it off. Her lover is heartbroken and becomes angry and bitter. Later he (the lover) finds out about her sacrifice and comes back to her. Only it’s too late as she is ill and dying of tuberculosis. Just as they are reunited, she dies in his arms. It’s a tragic story, really. But the music was romantic and beautiful and although we had seats in the nose bleed section, the acoustics in the Met were fabulous and we had no trouble hearing. My personal favorite is that each of the seats had a little screen, which showed the words they were singing in English. So although I wasn’t familiar with the plot line before I went, it was easy to figure out what was going on because the Italian to English translation was right in front of me.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/La_Traviata

Thursday, February 15, 2007

New York City, here we come!

Thursday started out as an intense day. Somehow with all of the crazy weather I had managed to set my alarm clock wrong and woke up Thursday morning at the time I was supposed to leave the house to go catch the train. Needless to say I ran out the door and almost missed my train to New York! Thank God for the fact that I was already packed and ready to go and that I didn’t have to drive and park at the train station. K was a lifesaver and just dropped me off.

Once on the train I ran into everyone on the committee who was traveling from DC and Baltimore to NYC to attend this meeting. It was funny to see 4 of my colleagues on the train. We all got off together and walked our frozen bodies over to the meeting, which, thankfully was only a few blocks from the train station.

The meeting was long and intense. The problem with long, intense meetings like that is that a lot that sometimes the things that are said are based on personality. Those with a strong personality or those who are more extroverted dominate the conversation. If you want to take more time to think about your response, forget it. You can’t get a word in edge wise. Since I tend to be the latter, the meeting got me all riled up because I had to yell and jump into the conversation more than I would have done in normal discussion. I was tense and tired by the time the whole thing was done. We all came to the consensus afterward that we’re going to be raising hands from now on in order to have more orderly discussion. (Thank God!)

After the meeting I had to figure out how to get from there to the hotel, where we (my friend L and I) were staying. I only had a slight idea how to get from Manhattan to Queens. I knew that if I could find the subway, I should be able to get within ½ mile of the hotel and then walk. I got on the 1, then the 7 and viola, I was in Queens. The only thing is that I didn’t know exactly which stop I was supposed to get off, so I ended up riding the 7 all the way to the end and then taking it back again…the scenic route of Queens via the #7 subway….hmmmm!

One thing that struck me again about NY is just how diverse it is! Sometimes when you’re just there for a short period of time doing touristy things it’s easy to miss the rich cultural heritage of the city. The subway was filled with people from every corner of the earth. It was refreshing and I realized that NYC is really a city after my own heart. Although it’s crowded, noisy, bustling with life and I wouldn’t want to live around so many people all of the time, it’s a joy to explore. The city that never sleeps…I now have a better understanding of what that looks like.

Sunday, February 11, 2007

Marvelous Light

Every once in a while I get inspired by a song. Today we sang "Marvelous Light" by Charlie Hall. Below are the lyrics (and a link to listen to the song):

I once was fatherless,
a stranger with no hope;
Your kindness wakened me,
Awakened me,
from my sleep

Your love it beckons deeply,
a call to come and die.
By grace now I will come
And take this life,
take your life.

Sin has lost it's power,
death has lost it's sting.
From the grave you've risen
VICTORIOUSLY!

Into marvelous light I'm running,
Out of darkness,
out of shame.
By the cross you are the truth,
You are the life,
you are the way

My dead heart now is beating,
My deepest stains now clean.
Your breath fills up my lungs.
Now I'm free.
now I'm free!

Lift my hands and spin around,
See the light that i have found.
Oh the marvelous light
Marvelous light
Lift my hands and spin
See the light within...

http://play.napster.com/track/16232050